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50 Cheap Valentine’s Day Gifts for Your Sweetheart (Without Looking Cheap)

50 Cheap Valentine’s Day Gifts for Your Sweetheart  (Without Looking Cheap)

Valentine's Day Gift Ideas

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If you’re like most couples, you’re watching your pennies this year and looking for ways to romance your sweetheart on Valentine’s Day without breaking the bank.

Valentine Day Gift Ideas


  1. Create an indoor picnic with available props, i.e., picnic tablecloth, paper goods. Share finger foods and favourite treats, along with a glass of wine. Spice up“dessert.” Enjoy your picnic on the living room floor or in bed. Play card games,board games, or make up your own.
  2. Decorate a unique-looking jar or box with craft items. Write numerous love notes on small pieces of paper and fill the jar with them. Present the jar to your sweetheart.
  3. Make a framed group of photos that put your relationship in chronological order of events, by months or years (depending on how long you’ve been together).
  4. There are many local and national Valentine’s Day giveaway contests with great prizes. Enter as many as you can and maybe you’ll get lucky.
  5. Burn a CD with songs that make you think of your sweetheart, and give it to him/her.
  6. For couples with children, get them involved in an all-family fun Valentine’s Day dinner at home. Mom can prepare a dessert for two and light the candles, while dad puts the kids to bed.
  7. Leave a note on your mate’s pillow expressing how special you think he/she is. Place a couple of mints on the pillow, too (or a single rose)…all to be discovered at bedtime.
  8. Create a favourite drink together. Try all kinds of ingredients. Enjoy taste-testing. Be sure to record the ingredients, so you can make “your” drink again on Valentine’s Day year after year.
  9. Buy two champagne flutes for use on Valentine’s Day only to annually toast your love. Keep them in a visible location as a year-round reminder of how special you are to each other.
  10. Create an at-home spa day for your mate. Deliver the gift in a basket filled with inexpensive candles, bubble bath, rose petals, facial mask and scrub. Then give your mate time to enjoy it. When he/she is done, heat up towels in the dryer fordrying off.
  11. Since Valentine’s Day is on a Saturday, celebrate with a day full of low-costactivities you both enjoy doing (depending upon your location and weather). Do something with your significant other that he/she rarely has time to do, but loves.
  12. Take a 2-hour, one-time salsa or tango dancing lesson together. Or, identify someother interest you share and find a place to give you one-time extended lesson on Valentine’s Day.
  13. Gals…Make the entire day full of his favourites: the breakfast of his dreams, the dinner of his dreams, TV that is his favourite, his music, etc. Don’t say anythingabout it; surprise him all day long.
  14. Take the person you love to experience something spectacular in nature: a sunset,a sunrise, the calm of the beach, share an evening walk gazing at the moon.
  15. Choose specialty foods, such as wine, cheese, fresh bread/dessert from a favourite bakery. Enjoy in front of your warm, toasty fireplace.
  16. Give each other long-lingering back rubs or head-to-toe body massages. Invest in luxurious lotion or oils.
  17. Watch an old movie at home together, with popcorn and soft drinks and candy-movie-theatre style.
  18. Share a scrumptious dessert and latte at a local patisserie or bakery.
  19. Pick a few household chores your Valentine usually does and surprise them by doing them before they get a chance, i.e., making the bed. It doesn’t sound romantic, but the thought will most certainly count.
  20. Walk around a favourite part of town, stopping at a nice locale for a glass of wine and appetisers.
  21. On Valentine’s Day, place three pieces of sexy underwear on your bed and let your mate pick out which one you should wear. It’s your secret!
  22. Write a “Top 10 Reasons Why I Love You” list.
  23. If Valentine’s Day is on a Saturday, if you’re a member of a wholesale club (like Costco) have fun eating all the free samples! Then fill any empty holes left in your stomach by going out to lunch. (That way you won’t spend a lot of money at a restaurant!)
  24. What’s a new activity you’ve both wanted to try that’s low cost? Do it. Or, how can you creatively modify it to make it low cost? Do it.
  25. Guys… If you want to cook dinner, remember, she doesn’t care what you make. There are many easy recipes on food web sites that look like you spent hours in the kitchen. Be imaginative and set the table special. Play romantic music softly while you dine. Leave the clean-up until morning! Guys or Gals… When you make that special dinner… Just like when you go to a fancy event and a “dinner menu” is put on each plate describing each food item,do something similar. For example, on your menu, write “Spaghetti & Meatballs,made with passion to be with YOU.” Don’t forget to give your “event” or “restaurant” a name at the top of the menu.
  26. Make a simple dinner at home, and then go out dancing or to listen to live music at a jazz club.
  27. Play a sport together that you haven’t played in awhile, or that you rarely get a chance to enjoy. Before you start, determine what the “winner” gets (making its omething to do with caring, loving, etc.).
  28. Leave a “racy” picture on your mate’s cellphone. Text a romantic message at at ime of day when you know things get hectic.
  29. Present your Valentine IOU coupons: I will make dinner; I will do laundry; I will take care of the kids one day a month for the next year; I will clean the kitchen fora week; I will serve you breakfast in bed.
  30. Together, go “shopping” at a sex-toy store without spending any money. It’ll give you ideas and get you “in the mood.”
  31. The tough economy has lured many upscale restaurants to have high-end early-bird specials. Find out what’s available in your area.
  32. Some volunteer fire departments use holiday fauna to create flower and rose bouquets as a fund-raiser. Prices are reasonable; just get there early.
  33. If she loves chocolate… Take her on a chocolate tour. Find your home town chocolate purveyor and ask for a behind-the-scenes tour. Next, go to a restaurant that serves her favourite chocolate dessert. Return home to snuggle with a cup of hot chocolate.
  34. Use a bar of soap to draft a love note on your bathroom mirror. Or, if you shower first, write a love note to your sweetheart in the steam on the mirror.
  35. Write “I love you because….” Notes and insert them into balloons. Blow up the balloons, and spread the balloons throughout your bedroom for your Valentine to pop and capture each message.
  36. Many drug stores with photo departments offer a variety of Valentine’s Day specials to make gifts from photographs. Use a good picture of the two of you together.
  37. Make homemade chocolate-covered strawberries: 1) Melt a packet of chocolate-chips in a double boiler and add a small amount of oil; 2) Remove from heat and quickly dip the strawberries into the chocolate; 3) Place on a wax paper and refrigerate for several hours until chocolate is firm.
  38. Guys… If you want to order flowers for your gal, supermarket florists are generally half the price of the stand-alone or online stores, but the trick to for seeing realsavings is to order two weeks or more in advance and pay for the flowers upfront………..Another trick to save money, get other guys who want to order flowers to join you and place your orders to the same florist all at once. The florist may give you a “bulk” discount. Again, it is important to plan ahead.
  39. Plan a scavenger hunt. Write clues and place them in envelopes, and place the envelopes around town. Make the final clue a doozey of a destination.
  40. Get a small radio and take your partner dancing at a romantic hideaway, such as the woods or riverfront or ocean.
  41. Use fabric paint to decorate a Valentine’s Day pillowcase for your loved one.Check arts-and-crafts websites for other easy-to-make gifts.
  42. What did you do on your very first date? Repeat it.
  43. Create a year-long calendar with photos of just the two of you above (top page)each month. Office supply stores will insert the spiral/binding for you.
  44. Have a progressive dinner. If you’re live separately, appetisers at his place. Entrée at her place. The main course, dessert, after-dinner drinks… map it out a few days ahead.
  45. If you’re married, one course at home, one course at her office, his office,etc. Use your imagination to set locations!
  46. Write new “updated” wedding vows, both serious and humorous, and share them with each other over a glass of wine in a candle-lit room.
  47. In the morning, tuck a love note in his pocket or her pocketbook or another certain-to-be-found spot. Jot down some meaningful words on a piece of paper- “Can’t wait to wrap my arms around you tonight!”; “What’s for ‘dessert’?”; “You make me happy every day!” – and tuck it in a conspicuous location to be easily discovered during the day.
  48. Have a 15-minute kissing session and try some new ways and places to kiss. The same old smoocheroo can get boring. Use your imagination…and perhaps a little whipped cream, chocolate syrup, etc.
  49. If you don’t have a special sweetheart, focus on bringing a smile or laughter to everyone you come in contact with on Valentine’s Day.
  50. What are your mate’s quirks and habits that irk you? Don’t nag about any of them the entire day. Then try to extend the no-nagging effort to every day of the year.Remember, you’re never going to change the other person.

 Valentines Day Gifts Do not need to cost a fortune.


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Posted by Marvellous Marriage - December 26, 2017 at 5:16 PM

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Five Steps To Growing Up In Your Marriage

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1. Make a deal to stop criticising each other. Criticising is a waste of time, hurtful, and sometimes devastating. It can tear down a person’s self-esteem. In couples, it creates a great divide and pushes intimacy out of the picture.

2. Encourage and support each other sufficiently.   Supporting each other in a relationship is a must. This encourages the couple to get strength from each other, which promotes positive dependence but not to the point of losing each one’s individuality.

3. Don’t backstab your spouse. No matter how angry you may be with your spouse, never judge or defame him or her. When you confide to your friends or your family, don’t dishonour your mate by calling him or her names or say bad things about him or her.

4. Treat your spouse right. To be a good person is hard, but it surely pays off in many ways. Bad habits and attitude problems certainly have a negative effect on your spouse no matter how much he or she loves you.

5. Set rules for your relationship. Set rules with your spouse and be sure that you stick with them. These can be regarding finances, household chores, or parenting duties. Honour and respect them like you would honour and respect each other.  



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Posted by Marvellous Marriage - December 16, 2017 at 5:16 PM

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Cleaning Up Your Marriage

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If you have long-standing problems, your marriage needs to be cleaned up.


Dusty Corners Of Your Marriage


  • You find no time for each other.
  • You fail to share your feelings.
  • You can’t stand each other.
  • You take all things for granted.
  • You aren’t interested in having sex with each other.
  • You don’t talk to each other.
  • You don’t have fun together.


Some Marriage-Cleaning Ideas


  • Always say “Yes” to your spouse.
  • Have a weekly date. If it’s impossible, try to have a monthly date.
  • Keep things simple.
  • Go on a trip with your spouse.
  • Share thoughts and feelings with each other.
  • Hug your spouse more often.
  • Sit close together in a quiet place.
  • Turn off the television or computer when you’re talking.
  • Read a book together.
  • Take a walk together.
  • Tell your spouse, “I Love You.”
  • Be as romantic as you can.


Some Cleaning Tools


  • Daily chats
  • Gifts and notes
  • Activities together
  • Good attitude
  • More romance






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Posted by Marvellous Marriage - December 15, 2017 at 5:19 AM

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How To Get Along With Your In-Laws


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Do you feel tensed whenever the word “in-laws” is mentioned? Do you tend to do everything just to avoid seeing them or bumping into them? Are you anxious when the holidays are near because you don’t want to spend them with your in-laws?

The day you got married was also the day you supposedly welcomed your spouse’s family into your life. In a sense, you made a promise to your better half that you’d love them for better or for worse, and you’d stick with them through thick and thin. However then, you didn’t realise they were going to be quite a challenge for you. It’s hard when you’re in a situation where you have to choose between saving your sanity and saving your relationship with your in-laws. Things would be a whole lot better if you would just sit and be quiet so that there’d be no more unnecessary arguments and bickering.

Many people have problems especially with their mother-in-law. She can be overly critical about your management skills: your spending habits, your work, and especially your cooking. Mothers-in-law always tend to feel like they’re always right and that they know best. When you don’t have kids, they’ll most likely pressure you to have one or provide unsolicited advice. Mothers hold onto their son as long as they live, so she might treat your husband as if he’s still her little boy. Now this can be hard if he is put in a situation where he should choose between you and her. Another distressing scenario is when your parents and your in-laws don’t get along with each other.

It can be a lot of stress, but there are ways to fix and downplay things if they can’t be totally fixed. You have a choice to either allow issues to affect you negatively or positively. The best thing to do is try to heal the damaged relationship between you and your in-laws. In effect, you’ll be making your marriage last a lifetime one way or another.

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Posted by Marvellous Marriage - November 26, 2017 at 5:18 PM

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Interesting Ways of Restoring Trust in a Marriage

Interesting Ways of Restoring Trust in a Marriage

The value of restoring trust in a marriage

Restoring Trust in a Marriage

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Trust is one of the most crucial virtues; thus an ultimate ingredient for long-lasting relationships in the lives of married couples. Although every couple comprehends the value of trust, it is one of the hardest things to possess in the presence of ego, pride and selfishness. Once each spouse learns to trust one another, they will acquire a successful marriage. Trust enables a person to have a deeper and more secured capacity to love; therefore you should know ways of restoring trust in a marriage.

Understanding the essence of trust: First step in restoring trust in a marriage

Trust gives freedom to an individual in ultimately dealing with others. It lets go of one’s inner self to be ready to share or take part of the others’ life, thus giving them the right to be involved. You become free from concerns, doubts and other negative emotions towards other people, enabling you to fully commit and understand one another without establishing a wall in between or hiding and over-protecting oneself.

Once you and your spouse discuss and provide time to analyse the essence of trust, the feelings for each other will be mutual, restoring trust in a marriage.

Earning trust: Second step in restoring trust in a marriage

One can receive trust from others, yet it is not given instantly and unconditionally; an individual must initially prove and deserve to earn it.

How can you insist your spouse trust you if you have not delivered on your promises? Or when you have

been harsh when your spouse admits a fault? Trust must come and commence on oneself before expecting others to give it to you, once both of you acknowledge each side, trust will grow gradually in a relationship.

Being true to your spouse: Third step in in restoring trust in a marriage

Truth hurts, but is constantly better than telling lies to your spouse’s face; therefore one must be careful and secure what you have, through avoiding factors that may destroy it; like having an affair, or deception.  Many relationships and marriages have been saved for the reason that both couples agreed to maintain honesty with each other even when it involved painful truths.

Giving up is not a solution: Final step in restoring trust in a marriage

Once trust had been destroyed, the experience from it is painful and might also be so traumatic that one can’t move on easily nor may commit again. It may even cause one to withdraw from loving.

Although trust is fragile like a crystal, it can always be restored by means of putting in much effort and attention to find a solution. But bear in mind, apologising is only the beginning of establishing and in regaining trust; one must be serious in making changes and in assuring that the damage will never happen again.


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